As a daughter and mother are extremely close emotionally, they made a pact years ago never to put the mother in a nursing home. Now, the physical demands of caregiving are becoming too great. What is the best way a nurse can help the daughter?

In this situation, the best course of action for the nurse is to aid the daughter in finding help with in-home care. Persuading her to admit her mother to a nursing home would likely cause guilt and emotional distress due to their pact. Praise alone may not address the current physical caregiving challenges. Pointing out her 'mistaken altruism' could be seen as insensitive and unhelpful. Providing practical assistance in finding in-home care can alleviate the physical demands on the daughter while still honoring the emotional commitment they made.